i jus came back from cafe del mar wid lingz, so qiao i saw nise w her fren chill out over there &qiuying working. it been a long time since we see each other, LOLs she say she miss mii mah. a well spent day w her! peeks will upload once she send mii d peeks.
before i went out w her, i had mj session wid babyy's relatives in d afternoon &aftermath went home cuz my family &relatives gathered at ah ma hse for dinner as ytd is d last day of cny le. we had sharkfins, crabs, steamboats &manu goodies. we end d night wid LAO HEI. hee i likee~
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ytd i went to attend baoling's wedding (babyy's cousin). i was touched during the solemnisation of the marriage. One of their Sis in Christ said that to manage a marriage there is 6secrets which are:
1)marriage couple need to communicate as statistic shown marriage couple onli tok to each other 4mins per day &hence only 30mins per week when they starts living for a period of time.
2)both husband &wife need to be considerate towards each other &understand the needs of one another.
3)to be committed to this mariage. even how angry you are during a break out, divorce sld nver come into your mind instead sld tok things out.
PS: I see myself here, venting anger unneccessary &wanting to voice out break wid my babyy.
4)couple must learn to compromise as no one is both to be perfect, &there is no such things as incompatiblilty as we have to learn to give &take in a r/s.
5)courtship is impt even you had alrdy married. It is impt to make TIME for each other, it good to reminisce d good memories spent together during courship period.
6)Christ to be centerise in the marriage. Statistic shown couple who went to church, read the bible &say prayer regurlarly together, divorced rate reduced from 1 out of 50 to 1 out of 10501.
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